Below Deck: Fraser Olender’s Age, Job, Relationship History, Instagram, & More
One of Below Deck’s most beloved crew members, Fraser Olender, will make his return to the show for Below Deck season 12, which is set to premiere on Bravo on June 2. Fraser’s been a familiar face on the show since he first appeared on Below Deck season 9 as a second stew, eventually working his way up to being the first male stew in the franchise’s history by Below Deck season 10. After another go during Below Deck season 11, Fraser was announced as returning for season 12 as chief stew recently.
Fraser developed a particularly close bond with Captain Lee Rosbach, who helmed the yacht on Below Deck for nearly 10 years, until he stepped aside in 2023 due to health issues. Other captains that Fraser has worked with include Captain Sean Meagher, Captain Sandy Yawn, and Captain Kerry Titheradge. As for crew, Fraser worked with Barbie Pascual, Jake Foulger, Alissa Humber and Camille Lamb, among others. He’s known as one of the best chief stews in the franchise due to his meticulous management style and entertaining demeanor.
Fraser’s Age
Fraser Is A Scorpio
Fraser was born on Oct. 26, 1992 making him a Scorpio and currently 32 years old. Fraser was born in Hampstead, London, and got into yachting after being a guest on a yacht himself, he told Travel + Leisure.
“I was fortunate enough to be a guest on a yacht, and it was a time when I was … doing my so-called ‘dream job,’ but it just absolutely wasn’t ticking the boxes. … I went on this boat, and I was surrounded by all these crew members that were so fascinated and in love with what they did. And I was in awe.”
In his off-time, Fraser told Bravo that he enjoys traveling and tanning, perfect for that yachtie lifestyle.
He also counted “champagne, shopping, and skiing—in that order” as his favorite off-charter activities. Still, Fraser warns that yachting isn’t as glamorous as it looks. He told Bravo that “the only luxury to crew life is disembarking,” and told Travel + Leisure that the job is actually a lot of work. “We certainly don’t live like guests. And it takes a special kind of person to really love hospitality on a new level. Yes, there are perks in it, but you have to adore service and love working with people.”
Fraser’s Job
Fraser Has Had To Be Firm
Fraser is a natural when it comes to working on yachts. He is used to the high standard of service, as it’s something he would demand in his private life as well. Fraser earned his stripes on Below Deck after only one season, getting promoted to chief stew for his second season on reality TV, due to his exemplary service and work ethic.
Still, it hasn’t been all smooth sailing for Fraser. During a particularly heated confrontation with Captain Sandy during Below Deck season 10, she accused him of refusing accountability and always having excuses for whatever issues arise. Captain Sandy asked Fraser to get his team in order, since she saw them standing around while the deck crew picked up the slack for them. As Fraser attempted to defend his team, Captain Sandy told him it wasn’t the time to speak to her, which made Fraser feel “sickened.”
Captain Sandy continued to admonish Fraser throughout the episode, saying he lacked respect for authority. During a conversation, Captain Sandy uttered the famous phrase, “The fish stinks at the head, and right now, you’re that head.” Fraser eventually takes accountability, and apologizes for any failings on his part. Captain Sandy seemed pleased with Fraser’s attitude after that encounter.
Fraser’s Relationship History
Fraser Kissed A Guest
